Clueless husband? Relationship drama! Married to an Empath Episode 4

When you receive strong intuitive empathic messages about your clueless husband’s pain, it's a strong warning sign that relationship drama could come-a-knockin'. Well, guess what? It did. Satomi sums it up afterwards by saying, “A couple days ago, I uh pretty much freaked out on him.”

Empathic overwhelm and a clueless partner can lead to relationship drama

Paul:  We were having a really nice day.  I was working on some documents and sent them to Satomi to review and she checked them out.  But, our conversation was very, very rough.  

Satomi:  I pretty much freaked out on him.  At least, that’s what it looked like on the surface. 

Paul:  There was like no warning!  Don't skip past that part!  There's nothing like, “Oh there's something difficult going on we should talk about.”  It’s not like I get some sign.

Satomi:  That's what he thinks!  No!  For me, there's no warning.  Yeah, I don't want to receive messages like that either from your guide!  Actually, I’ve been dealing with this for two months!  I’ve been receiving messages from his guides!

Satomi uses her intuitive empath skills to work with spirit guides to help everyone around her.  But they have to be willing to hear tough messages

Guide: “Paul’s egos coming out.”  

Satomi:  And I was like, okay, “Thank you for the warning.”  And then a week later or something… 

Guide:  “Okay, it's getting bigger.”  

Satomi:  ”Thank you. But how about you tell him?”

Okay, so what I mean by Paul’s ego in this situation is that he tries too hard.  He tries to make things perfect.  Nothing's good enough.   If he doesn't notice and he's not aware, it gets bigger and bigger and bigger!  He says to himself, “I want more” kind of thing.  So that's the ego I’m talking about.  I said to the guide, “How about you tell him?”  Right?  And then the guide said…

Guide: “Right now, he's not getting it.”  

Satomi:  So I said to him, “Yeah if he's not getting your message, why do you think he's gonna get a message from me?”  And then his guide said…

Guide:  “You have voices.”  

Satomi:  Okay, “But I don't like delivering messages all the time.”  And then the guide disappears.

So for the last two months, I’ve been dropping hints to Paul in just gentle ways about how, “Ego can be sneaky but you’re not aware” and, “But it's still there” and “So you have to be careful” and then he agrees.

Yeah, okay, he receives it well, and then a week later again the guide show up and say…

Guide:  “His ego is still there.” and “It's getting bigger and hitting him from different angles now.”

Satomi:  “Why don't you just go ahead and tell him?”  And then his guide said...

Guide:  “His ego is in a way and he doesn't receive it.” 

Satomi:  “But if his ego is in a way, he doesn't want to receive messages from me either.”  And so then I’ll try to figure out some way to look for an opportunity.  

So I’m giving him some messages in a nice way gentle way.  Not like, “Hey, you have ego so you gotta deal with it!”  I can’t just tell him - he's not my client.  

So I don't just dump him... Um no!  I don’t mean dump him!  I mean, I don’t just dump it ON him.  [laughter]

Something’s gotta give

And so it's like I keep working on it.  I find creative ways to give him messages.   And this time for some reason it didn't work.   

And then two days ago, the message was SO LOUD, it started to shake me!  It's so much, right?  And then I was like, “But I still don't know how he's going to take it - he has no idea!”  

When somebody has no idea, that's the hardest time to deliver messages.  And so then I didn't know how to do it.  But I couldn't handle it anymore and so then I just dumped everything on him!  

So that's what happened. 

It's not like it was coming from nowhere.  I’ve been working on this for like two months.  So do you remember me saying things now?  

Paul:  I do now in retrospect. I remember that you've been dropping these hints for like the last week and a half or I don't know what it was - maybe two weeks?

Satomi:  Two months!  At least two months!

Paul:  Okay at least two months.  Yeah, I can believe that.

Satomi:  So yeah.  And then he said, “I don't want to receive messages like that.”  Yes I’ve been delivering messages in different ways and if you don't get messages in a gentle way, then… this happens.

Paul:  I mean I got them in general, like, “Yeah, that sounds right.  Yeah sure, that sounds great.”

Satomi:  I got loud painful messages from guides, so I told them, so I tell them to skip me and go directly to him!  Because I’m the one who he ended up getting mad at!  Right?

When you’re empath, living with an empaths, or married to an empath, you're probably dealing with this kind of thing a lot.

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See you soon!

Paul:  Bye, bye.